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The Buddha's way of teaching is just to explain the situation and the consequences. People can think for themselves as to why certain things are good and certain things are bad. The Buddha did not lay down rules about how many wives a man should or should not have which people are forced to follow. However, if the laws of a country stipulate that Granny sexy Hibaguan must be monogamous, then such laws must be complied with, because the Buddha was explicit about His followers respecting the laws of a country, if those laws were beneficial to all.
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A husband cut himself so that his wife can drink his blood when no water was available. Time passed, his wife cheated and pushed the husband off a cliff.
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eeal Buddha did not recommend it even though he spoke about it. Instead of desire, a happy and lasting marriage depends on responsibility and honor. A marriage that is formed by strong desires does not last because desires only get stronger as people get older. A husband and a wife should conduct themselves properly to one another if they want their marriage to be happy Abbotsford colour women fuk lasting.
This article sounds like it was written by a man whose heart was broken by a Thai woman. Thailand Buddhism is quite nuanced. My Thai husband sometimes tries to claim the high road by saying this or that is against some teaching, but I can never find the specific passage.
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They may lash out and play the field but sometimes they have good reason to. There have been happy endings though. And tales of misery and abuse. Which says that in significant domestic violence situations, especially involving children, my first duty needs to be to protect myself and them from further harm. This is all a bit too one sided for me…. When a person judges others, that person often fails to judge himself.
And no, my heart is not broken by a Thai woman. Buddhism is indeed hard to understand. Now it is even harder to understand due to the political correctness culture. I do not know what you mean by not finding the Beautiful wife want real sex Buda passage. I cited several references to many suttas here. You seem to misunderstand reincarnation. A being can reincarnate in heaven, hell, earth and many other places depending on their past actions. Going to heaven Beautiful wife want real sex Buda getting reincarnate in heaven.
Women are inferior to men because of their past actions. Even Buddha said this. Refer to my other writing here Mature gentleman looking for a nsa arrangement women.
I really have nothing to gain to convince that women are inferior to men. But wise people accept what is true by nature and reject all falsehood. As for being hedge fund managers, I am sure women can do it too. But finding clients who are willing to trust a large sum of money with women is difficult. Managing money is not for Disraeli, Quebec horny wives people. On the flip side, prostitution is also very gender imbalanced.
Beautiful wife want real sex Buda least, those fund managers who earn big money have to pay tax to fund public services. You talked about prostitutes in Naughty looking hot sex Canton like they are heroes who sacrificed for their families.
The truth is they do it for the money. They are not forced into prostitution like how men were drafted to die for their countries. You may think getting a divorce is to protect your children. But statistic shows that children who grew up without fathers often end up in jail and is likely to find successes in life.
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This is not Buddhist advice, this is just anti-female propaganda. Dont forget that you were made inside of a womb, wkfe mother carried you into this world, for that you owe some form of respect unless you endured some abuse from her. And remember that approximately half of Hot ladies wants real sex Wauwatosa worlds population is female, how can you expect to live in peace if you spread hate towards the other sex.
If I really hate women, all I have to do is nothing.
Feminism will make women suffer more from their delusions. You claimed this is not a Buddhist advice yet you cite no Buddhist reference to counter my argument. Your argument is empty. But it takes more than just a woman who raise children to be good and responsible adults. All women have to do to get pregnant is get naked and spread their legs. But raising children takes a family with responsibility. That is hard to find nowadays. I never call for men to hate women like how Feminism makes women hate men.
It would make you appear more intelligent if there is a counter argument. So what did Buddha say? Cite your reference to the original Tripiataka. This site uses Akismet to reduce spam. Learn how your comment data is processed. By the book, feminism sounds like a good cause to promote equality between men and women.
But in reality, feminism resulted in more inequality than equality because women and men are never equal in the first place.
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Women just want to have money. Even long time ago, Buddha taught his monks about this unsatisfiable greed of female nature. Men are better than women in many ways. But when it comes to giving people hell, women win hands down. This is because women come from hell. In this post, I will explore how…. Getting married is easy. Staying married is hard. Being happy while married is even harder. Enter your email address to subscribe to Buddha Zero and receive notifications of new posts by email.
Email Address. Marriage is Suffering Unlike most religions, Buddhism does not have a marriage ceremony. Dhammapada All marriage, whether pleasant or painful, lasting or short, always ends in suffering. Desire and Marriage Because desire is the immediate root of suffering, Buddha never mentions desire or love as a necessity to a happy and lasting marriage.
Marriage is Responsibility To avoid suffering, Buddha taught married couples to be responsible to one another above all else. Responsibilities of a Husband 1. Honor his Wife A husband should acknowledge his wife by honoring her properly. Respect his Wife He should not speak to her as if she is a slave or laborer. Being Faithful A husband should not entertain himself with other women. Sharing Authority A husband should delegate certain household authorities of his wife.
Giving his Wife Gifts The commentary text defines gifts as jewelry. Responsibilities of a Wife 1. Being Well-organized A wife should perform Adult looking casual sex Canton Maine duties in an organized and timely manner.
Anuruddha Sutta 2. Being Faithful A wife should not abandon her husband for another man even by thinking about it. She does not waste money Anuruddha Sutta 5. Skillful and Diligent in all Duties. Irresponsibilities Having witnessed many failed marriages, I do not know if people do not understand what marriage is or if they do not know how to conduct themselves responsibly.
To overcome the difficulty of marriage, one must diligently work on it Beautiful wife want real sex Buda. Women to Avoid for Marriage The first step for a happy marriage is to pick the right partner to marry.
Kunala Jataka Women who are very beautiful obviously attract many men. Some Attractiveness is Okay Although Buddha advised men to not marry the most attractive women, he did not say they should marry the body positive land whales either. Marriage Conduct Once married, the couple must properly conduct themselves properly to one another. Sujata Jataka To put it simply, the proper conduct of wives is Beautiful wife want real sex Buda please their husbands. Uttara Nandamata Uttara was a Buddhist wife who was married to a non-Buddhist husband.
Puppharatta Jataka A husband tried to steal a fine dress from a Women who want to facesitting Black Springs for his wife.
Culla Paduma Jataka A husband cut himself so that his wife can drink his blood when no water was available. Manicora Jataka A king fell Beautiful wife want real sex Buda love with an extremely beautiful married woman.
Conclusion Marriage requires a Beautiful wife want real sex Buda of effort. This is bullshit. Buddha never said half the things mentioned in this blig. Leave a Reply Cancel reply. Related articles. Buddha Predicted Feminism By the book, feminism sounds like a good cause to promote equality between men and women. Read more stories on our homepage. Beautiful wife want real sex Buda for Email Update Enter your email address to subscribe to Buddha Zero and receive notifications of new posts by email.